Do you have the Love you want in your life?

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Do you have the love you really want- with your partner, friends and family?

Do you sometimes feel like something is missing?

Do you wonder how you got to this point?
Does it all feel too big to manage?

Do you have concerns as you enter a new phase in your relationship?

You are not alone.

You may see the same problems coming up repeatedly in your relationship, and feel like those around you aren’t responsive to your needs, leading to anxiety or depression. You may find yourself having the same relationship with different people, and feel unsure about how to find happiness there.

When faced with a relationship in trouble or a marriage sliding toward divorce, you likely wonder how you got to this point in the first place – This was not how you wanted it to be, but things have snowballed to the point that you don't even know where to start dealing with them.

I can help you hold the hope, even if you haven't felt it in a while. I will work with you individually, and/or with your partner and family, to define priorities, untangle anger, resentment and pain and build harmony. With compassion, respect and a sense of humor, I am committed to helping you learn to live the life you've always wanted.

Maybe you are in a time of transition, like the beginning of a marriage...

It seems like everyone around you thinks you ought to be feeling or acting in a certain way, and it can be difficult to separate your expectations from those of others. The truth is that the challenges presented during the first year of marriage can find you in a reality that is very different from what you had imagined. You are bombarded with images of happy newlyweds and other people implying that you should still be on your honeymoon. I promise that this is very different from the experience of most newly married couples.
I can help you during this time to clearly define who you are as individuals, and as a couple, as you begin this new chapter of your lives.

I love helping you - I do this work because I believe that relationships are the cornerstone of our sanity - they can build us up and make us feel great, or they can really bring us down! I will support you in giving your relationship its best chance at bringing both of you the happiness you deserve.

I welcome your questions, please feel free to email me or leave a confidential voicemail; I will return your inquiry within 24 hours.
Maggie O'Connor, MA, LMFT
NY Lic #000249